A Little Message For The Day..

“Self Acceptance”

Once we have found ourselves, accepted ourselves and learned to be at ease with who you are, that is when we can live a life with ourselves completely, love ourself entirely and be ourselves in all of our glory !!

A Little Message For The Day..

“Strength”

For every time you get pushed to the ground, every time you feel not worthy or broken, remember that your strength is just like the flowers that grows back after the harshest winter’s.. You have the strength within yourself to grow back yourself.

May you have a beautiful Day !!

Blessings xx

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A Little Message For The Day..

“ Dreams “

Good Day All

Follow your heart, we sometimes get stuck in our heads, I know this world can be a scary place, but in all honestly, if you can’t live your life doing what you enjoy, loving who you want and being you you are, Then it’s time to make a decision and a major change !

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A Little Message For The Day..

“ Believe “

As the quote says,

“ Believe in your infinite potential, Your only limitations are those set upon yourself “

We go through so many experiences during our lives, we meet people, meet lovers, partners, companions and friends.

We make it our life’s mission to always make the people in our lives happy and make sure they have a place within our hearts.

This is all good and well, we are not much without the people we love and care for, our identities are build around the life we envision and that is what we work towards to make our reality.

My message for you today is to remember yourself, don’t forget that you need care too, as a caregiver, dedicated to your family and friends you might close your own infinite potential, I know that it’s very difficult at times, our days go by so quick and before we realize it the day is over and many more things has to be done. At the end of the day you have not one minute for yourself.

If you can make time for yourself, please do, you are a very important person in all those lives you care for, and just like a flower, if you don’t water a plant it will not grow and carry beautiful flowers, always remember to make time for you.

Your mental health, stability and strength is most important. Take a minute, meditate, take a few mindful breaths and relax.

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Always show gratitude for what you have today, live for today, not yesterday or tomorrow, now is what matters.

Give yourself the ability to live within your infinite power … Today !!

Blessings xx

A Little Message For The Day..

“Gratitude”

For today we need to show a little kindness to our fellow man, not everyone has a good time right now, even though we are not direct friends with the people that we connect with, we are still a support system for some of them, even online.

Let’s take some time out of our day today and do something nice for someone, I am sure they will appreciate that immensely.

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In this message for you the reader, also treat yourself with kindness today, you have been working hard, take care of yourself, and see the good things in life today, focus on the good and not the “ I don’t and I can’t “ , I know we are all guilty of that for we are only human.

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A Little Message For The Day..

“Love”

Good Morning

As the quote says, The most important things in life is People, Memories and Photos, Those Feeling Moments, A Smile and Love.

We tend to forget what is really important in our lives, we get so busy having to survive, provide, be a good mother or father and keeping our lives going.

This message today is just to remind everyone reading this to appreciate the people, furry friends, familiars and spirit in your life, without them we would fall apart. They make us get up every morning and our daily efforts all worthwhile.

A true reminder of why we are here.

A Little Message For The Day..

“Love Yourself”

As the quote says,

“ Falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone that appreciates you, rather than looking for love to compensate for a self love deficit “

What true words.

I know out of experience that I am guilty of this myself, when a person is so used to being broken down, so used to being treated as if you don’t matter, so used to being told that you don’t matter and not able to do anything correct in another persons eyes, we tend to forget to love ourselves and therefore end up to compensate for a love deficit. I was very very scared of being alone, but had to make a choice one day, I realized that the people I chose to be in my life was to make me feel whole, only realizing that No one can make you feel whole but yourself, in my case I kept on choosing the same “type” of person, ending up more broken, ending up more hurt, and in a worst relationship than the first one.

I have been working for years to not put myself in this position, Loving myself was a very hard task, but I have managed to break the habit and put myself first, unfortunately I have learned that in this process of learning to love myself again, seeing me for who I am and excepting myself completely with all my flaws, realizing that everything others said to me was only a reflection of themselves, then learning to ultimately forgive myself for mistakes that I have not made was the most ultimate outcome, I had to do this alone, completely alone, the scariest thing for most woman.

When I eventually achieved it, going into this big world alone and finding myself again made me feel grounded, free and my self worth came back to me little by little, I could see myself with new eye’s, I am not saying it was an easy task but today I have made a promise to myself, I will never put myself into a situation of fighting for a place, needing to feel that I am worthy by another persons approval again. It does not matter what life brings to me, I will fight for myself.

I am not sure how many people reading this piece have at some time suffered the same fate, I also know that not all situations are the same, and that in some other homes circumstances are different, but my point to this piece is to ask everyone reading this, everyone that is in a current toxic situation to practice self love. You are more important to yourself, you and you alone can walk your path, no one can dictate that path for you, please push yourself through and try to take care of yourself.

The emotional scars left will heal, it might not heal straight away, mine has not and some still have not, even after years of healing, I am no longer afraid to say that I am broken and that I am putting the pieces back together, I have learned that there is no shame in that and that there is nothing to feel bad about. I promise you, picking yourself up, learning to love yourself again, and no longer holding on to toxic relationships or toxic people because they bullied you so far that you think you are nothing without them then this piece is dedicated to you.

There is a saying that goes…. “You never know how strong you are unless you get put in hot water”

I really hope that this message has given someone a little light at the end of the dark tunnel.

Stay Strong !